Ziggyrbe10k, 51

Where art thou, my IT girl soulmate? I'm a self-taught software developer, a jack of all trades within the IT industry, really. I don't think I'm as nerdy as I once were. In many ways I'm still a nerd, and thoroughly enjoy nerdy stuff, but I don't have a nerdy social group to share it. When I watch the Big Bang Theory I want to die, thinking I've wasted my life!

The last three years have been a roller coaster of various types of activism, and I'm now mostly dedicated to a project I've founded, rbe10k, with the goal of eliminating worldwide poverty within an adult lifetime. Designing a society can be as nerdy as it can get! Plus it will be mostly coordinated through automated systems, mostly software.

I'm at a time trying to juggle wanting to develop a social life whilst being introverted, vegan, geared towards social change, and separated with late teenage children, and a lone nerd at heart. Most of my social interaction is online and international (mostly as a result of rbe10k), which definitely doesn't address my needs for socialising, nor provides any chances for developing a romance.

Some of what I value about my personality are an inability to get offended (it does have its drawbacks though), not being jealous nor possessive, being respectful and supportive, tender and sweet, adventurous, aware of my codependent behaviours (and that of others'), great cook, musical, open-minded and critical thinker, physically affectionate, and generous in every sense.

I'm looking for someone to support, be supported by, and learn from each other; a mutual companion and witness, someone with whom we can experience being fully honest and unashamed and silly, be mutually interested in each-other's stuff, and support each other in growing independent and fulfilled.